As women, we all know that wearing a pair of high heels brings on the sexy. Heels shape the leg, lift the butt and put a little swagger in your step. But can you be hot in flats?

I know women who just don’t wear flats. Some are so used to wearing high heels that they don’t feel comfortable without the extra height. Some don’t like the look of flats on themselves and others say they just don’t feel sexy without a higher heel. I wonder if Pamela Anderson or Sophia Loren ever had that problem?

Here’s the thing. A sexy woman is a sexy woman. Take Kim Kardashian. She’s pretty hot. And while she’s often seen wearing extremely high heels, she also wears flats. Can you tell me that any guy in his right mind would ever think that she is anything less than a sex goddess – even in a gladiator sandal? I didn’t think so.

The reality is, if you’ve got it, you’ve got it. High heel, low heel or somewhere in between. In this case, size doesn’t matter.

But if you don’t think you’re sexy, if you don’t feel like one hot honey, then you won’t be. Being sexy is part this, part that and part attitude. You’ve got to feel it, own it and work it.

So can you be hot in flats? I say yes. But if you don’t think so, if you don’t believe you can, then keep on rockin’ those sky highs. Just not to the beach – your heels might sink in the sand. And that’s not very sexy.