Go Ahead – Be a Part-Time Hottie

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I recently met with a potential client who, within a few seconds of meeting me, informed me that I look nothing like my website photos and for a few moments that’s all I could think about. What did he mean I looked nothing like my photos? Who the heck did I look like? I mean, it was me in those pictures. I found myself doing a mental check. Hair done and brushed? Check. Makeup on? Another check. Dressed appropriately with my usual attention to detail? Check again. Oh! I know. It’s the turtleneck. I knew I shouldn’t have worn that damn turtleneck. It wasn’t till later that day that I had an “aha” moment. Why should I look exactly like…

Apparently, Crazy Ain’t Hot

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Ever get into one of those arguments that goes horribly wrong? The kind that starts off innocently enough but ends badly? Maybe it started as a discussion or friendly debate and then slowly things got out of control and you saw red, your face contorted and you ended up crossing the crazy line? Well apparently that kinda crazy ain’t hot. I met a fella the other day. His name is Steve. Steve and I were discussing what he considers hot in a woman and according to him, passion is hot. And not just in the bedroom. A woman who is passionate about life, other people or anything that interests her, is sexy. Yet once that woman’s passion crosses the line to…

Are You Ever Too Old to Be Hot?

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I’ll be the first to admit – I’m no spring chicken. I’ve always assumed that one day my ability to be considered Hot by anyone other than myself would eventually fade. For all I know it’s already happened and I’m currently living in a state of blissful ignorance and denial. Maybe that’s why my dog sighs when he sees me get ready in the morning. Little guy feels sorry for me. Doggy dilemma aside, I’m starting to think that my assumption might be wrong. Not about me personally, but about the idea that being Hot diminishes with age. Here’s why… I was at the dentist’s the other day, flipping through one of the July issues of Hello Magazine and stumbled…

10 Biggest Mistakes Women Make Trying to Look Hot

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I’m all for looking Hot. In my line of work, looking Hot can usually be attributed to the variety of subtle things a woman does to look attractive to the opposite sex. Very rarely is it the overt and obvious gestures that attracts a man to a woman. Here are the most common mistakes I’ve seen women make in the attempt to look sexy. In other words, they’re going for Hot but end up Not. 1. Small, Tight Fitting Clothing When you wear clothing that is too tight or too small, it looks, well, it just looks really bad. (See why people hire me?) Clothing that is too tight or too small has a tendency to ride up and/or pull…